End Conversations Smoothly By Agreeing With Others
Say you’re late for work in the morning and you run into your neighbor Dave. Dave loves his Boston Terrier Stinky and won’t shut up about him. As much as you love hearing about Stinky’s pooping habits, you really need to get in your car and off to work. What do you do?
Easy. You agree with Dave. Positively reinforce Dave’s rant, and transition to how you’re running late and need to get going.
For example:
Dave: “…and then Stinky dug a hole and pooped right in it!”
You: “That Stinky sure is quite the character. I’d love to hear more about Stinky later, but I’m running late for work and need to get going. I hope you understand.”
And now you’re off to work without stepping on Dave’s feeling. You’re cutting the conversation off on a positive note, and giving a perfectly reasonable excuse. It’s as simple as that.